Thanksgiving day was a very quiet and uneventful day. 
I am very thankful that we are all safe and sound. Warren spent his thanksgiving  with Grandma in Florida. Howie came home and was able to spend sometime with his mom. Howie got stuck in bad traffic on his way back to Birmingham, But  is safely back in his dorm. Warren is also safely back in NYC. 
I spent my  entire day with the love of my life, my Miriam. What a blessing to see her  and be with her. I talked to her and prayed with her. I continue to  encourage her and try my best to lift her spirit. I always give her lots  of hugs and kisses. Around 6pm,  Howie and I had Thanksgiving Day dinner with Jason, Susan, Amanda  and Justin. Susan has been visiting Miriam frequently and so has Vilma.  Miriam has so many friends who love her and pray for her. Thank you all  very much. I know Miriam would love to thank all of you personally but  she remains unable to. Please take many rain checks from her. She loves  all of you very much and she is trying her best to recover. 
The day prior, a dear friend from Costco came to visit Miriam with her two children. Susan was  here and said Miriam tried to talk to her. As her friend said a special  prayer for her, Miriam became very emotional. I am quite certain Miriam  was trying to thank her and probably wanted to give her a hug. She  couldn't. 
Below are some notes left in her guestbook written on 11/25/2011:
1.   Miriam, I love you very much! I pray for you often. I cannot wait  until we can go to Big Rosie's again for lunch - just us 2! I have hope  and faith that God delivers miracles. You, dear, are truly a lovely  woman. I actually found some early photos of you and your boys with us  from many years ago that I will bring! I hope it cheers you up! God  bless you.   N.
2.  Miriam! I'm so glad that I got to visit you  before I go back to college. I have faith and hope that you will pull  through this. You are such a beautiful, kind, caring woman, and you will  be in my prayers. I will always remember that time you and your family  were so warm to invite me, my mother, my dad and "C" to your beautiful  house in Hampton Cove. I still have pictures for memories. May God bless  you.  J.
3.  Hello Miriam. I'm so glad I could come and visit  you today! I have so many wonderful memories of the time you had my  mother, father, "J", and I over for a dinner at your home. When I think  of you, I see a strong, beautiful, loving mother, friend and woman. I  pray for you and a successful recovery. I remember I ran into you and  your sweet mother at Stein Mart before Christmas last year and I still  remember the warm and sweet comfort you embraced me with. I will come  back and visit. May God bless you always. I love you very much.  "C".
4. Miriam, my mom and I came to visit you today  while I'm visiting for Thanksgiving. It was so good to see you again. I  have fond memories of going out for lunch together and catching up. You  always brightened my day. I remember the last time we went to lunch and  you told me that it's important that the guy I date treats me like a  princess. The guy I was dating then was not like that and we broke up  shortly thereafter and I have since found a wonderful guy who really  does treat me like a princess and makes me very happy. Thank  you for  the good advice!.  love, "C".
Skype has been a  tremendous blessing to us. We are able to group Skype video so Miriam  is getting auditory and visual stimulations. 
The mild increase in  Baclofen  has also improved her muscle tones in her lower  extremities. This is according to her occupational therapist's opinion.  She should know since she has been taking care of her since March of  this year.
Thank you prayer warriors. We continue to wait for Miriam's functional recovery.
In His Time,
Dad/Alex

 
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